Sarah Paulson’s romance with Holland Taylor isn’t any American Horror Story.

Though the couple, who started relationship in 2015, every have an Emmy of their very own, that hasn’t stopped the Ocean’s 8 star from consulting her girlfriend about work every now and then.

“I absolutely ask her acting advice,” Sarah instructed E! News Oct. 3. “I actually talk to her about that kind of stuff all the time.”

“She weirdly doesn’t ask me very much for acting advice, which is kind of hurtful,” she joked. “As we’re discussing this, I’m realizing that’s a little weird.” (For extra with Sarah, tune into E! News Oct. 3 at 11 p.m.)

But on the subject of the kind of roles they settle for, the Mrs. America star, 49, added that she and the Two and a Half alum, 81, don’t search one another’s approval. “I think both of us are really independent that way,” she defined, “and we trust and admire the way each of us think about these things.”