Love Is Blind Season 7 has been underwhelming to me from the get-go, however the male contestants have grown more and more insupportable and disappointing with each passing episode. The first batch of episodes exhibits the lack of sensitivity and consciousness the males have with regards to intercourse and all it entails. From Stephen Richardson’s lewd views and audacious feedback on childbirth to Ramses Prashad’s distaste for utilizing a condom — the lack of intercourse ed is painfully stark. A brand new batch of episodes has additional intensified why a few of these males have to do a fast retrospection on how intercourse is extra multifaceted than simply getting down and soiled.

Nick Dorka’s unwillingness to carry out oral intercourse and Prashad’s sexual coercion when his associate Marissa George was feeling unwell left me sick to my abdomen. I don’t know if it’s the casting or simply a dangerous batch of ignorant, immature males, however Love Is Blind‘s producers have to do a higher job earlier than exposing each the ladies and viewers to contestants with twisted beliefs about a girl’s sexual well being, preferences, and the act of replica as a complete.

Stephen Richardson Has Uncommon Views on Childbirth

It was really appalling to me to see a grown man discuss feminine sexuality and childbirth the approach Stephen Richardson did on the present. He had a dialog with Monica Davis and Taylor Krause in Mexico that was disrespectful to ladies, the place he acknowledged that there are ladies on the market who wouldn’t care if a man is married and would provide to carry out oral intercourse on them. He additionally had an audacious dialog together with his ex-fiance, Davis, the place he equated the ache of childbirth to the similar as a man getting a widespread chilly. Richardson additionally made statements that insinuated that males deal with ladies effectively in a relationship simply to be rewarded with intercourse, which sends out the incorrect message not simply from the perspective of misinformation, however additionally from the standpoint of affection and connection that the present is making an attempt to symbolize.

Richardson and Davis known as off their engagement as a result of the former received caught sending express messages to a different girl whereas being away at a sleep check. Davis threatened the electrician throughout their tense breakup by exclaiming how he had higher not blame her for his being “gross.” In the October 10 episode of The Viall Files, Davis clarified that her intentions had been to not kink-shame, however that she was blindsided by the revelations in the express texts and started questioning who she selected to share her mattress with.

Ramses Prashad Needs To Do Some Introspection

Ramses Prashad’s sexual views had been a curveball I didn’t see coming. He projected himself to be a feminist and received viewers’ hearts when he mentioned he didn’t need to impose strict gender roles in his marriage to Marissa George. This is why his unwillingness to put on a condom whereas having intercourse was stunning to me. In Love Is Blind Season 7, Episode 9, Prashad was seen making an attempt to coax his associate George to go on contraception by offering the flimsy justification that carrying a condom makes intercourse not “enjoyable” — which, would possibly I add, is a extremely problematic factor to say on nationwide TV. What’s even worse was when George mentioned they only uncooked canine and take care of the penalties, Prashad was nonetheless not sport. It’s appalling to suppose that he’d moderately have his fiancée take care of the myriad negative effects of occurring contraception than make a small sacrifice for his associate.

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Things get infinitely worse in later episodes when viewers are aware about an evidently unwell George having a heated dialogue with Ramses Prashad about how she didn’t need to have interaction in intimacy because of PMS and, typically, she was not feeling “in the mood.” They had an uncomfortable backwards and forwards, and George even bluntly acknowledged how she wished she didn’t have to clarify herself for not desirous to “satisfy” his wants on an off day. Clearly, “in sickness and in health” doesn’t exist in Prashad’s dick-tionary, as he appears to be unaware that a associate can at all times say no after they aren’t feeling significantly frisky, and that’s completely okay.

‘Love Is Blind’ Producers Should Encourage Sex Positivity on the Show

Love Is Blind Season 7, Episode 10 noticed Hannah Jiles share with Ashley Adionser throughout the reunion get together that Nick Dorka doesn’t wish to carry out oral intercourse and, throughout the onset of their relationship, didn’t care for her wants. In my opinion, m utual sexual satisfaction shouldn’t even be a level of debate in the twenty first century with all the avenues and assets obtainable to coach oneself. It’s alarming to me to suppose that the males on the present have come meaning to get married however lack fundamental intercourse training and courtesy. The Love Is Blind producers can bounce in and encourage intercourse positivity on the present by introducing a phase with a intercourse coach or intimacy coordinator like Too Hot to Handle to forestall a repeat of ill-informed narratives on intercourse being preached on their present.

The Love Is Blind Season 7 finale episode airs on Netflix on October 23. You can stream all earlier episodes and seasons on the similar platform in the U.S.

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Release Date

February 13, 2020

Main Genre

Reality

Seasons

7

Story By

Chris Coelen

Writers

Chris Coelen

Directors

Chris Coelen

Showrunner

Chris Coelen

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