
Haven’t Seen My Daughter in 2 Years: Catelynn Lowell’s Story
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Catelynn Lowell Voices Concerns Over Adoptive Parents of Her Daughter
In a heartfelt revelation, former Teen Mom star Catelynn Lowell has openly criticized the adoptive parents of her daughter, Carly. Last September, she took to social media to express her feelings, revealing that both she and her husband, Tyler Baltierra, were essentially cut off from communication by Carly’s adoptive parents just after the 17-year-old was born. This lack of connection has been a source of profound emotional distress for Catelynn and Tyler, highlighting the complexities and challenges that can arise in open adoption scenarios.

Reflecting on her current situation, Catelynn shared with Us Weekly that the last time she had any contact with Carly was about two years ago. This long absence has weighed heavily on her heart. “It’s very hard,” she expressed, emphasizing her desire for her daughter to have whatever she wants, regardless of what that may entail. Catelynn’s words reveal a deep love and longing for her daughter, highlighting the emotional complexities that accompany adoption.
However, Catelynn’s feelings are not entirely straightforward. In a recent conversation with E! News, she made a surprising statement expressing regret over her choice of Carly’s adoptive parents. This admission sheds light on the challenging emotions she grapples with regarding her decision to place Carly for adoption, as she feels that the choice may have inadvertently led to their current estrangement.

In her candid remarks, Catelynn acknowledged that while she stands by her original decision to give Carly up for adoption to protect her from the traumas of her own childhood, she would have approached the matter differently if given another chance. “I definitely would have picked a couple in Michigan,” she reflected, indicating her desire for a more open adoption process, where she and Tyler could have maintained a closer connection with their daughter throughout her life.
Catelynn’s insights reveal the importance of making informed decisions in adoption. She pointed out that their initial agreement for an “open” adoption, where they would receive updates and have annual visits, shifted dramatically as Carly matured. “They basically have closed the adoption on us,” Catelynn claimed, which has left her feeling powerless and heartbroken.
Through her journey, Catelynn has become an advocate for adoption awareness, speaking to other adoptees and educating herself on the emotional impacts of adoption. She emphasized the need for prospective parents to understand the gravity of their decisions and the potential consequences that can arise from them.

In June 2023, Catelynn expressed moments of joy when she shared that she had spent time with Carly, only for things to take a turn for the worse since then. This rollercoaster of emotions has been challenging for Catelynn, who now has three other biological children with Tyler—Nova, 10, Vaeda, 5, and Rya, 3. She is determined to ensure that Carly knows she is loved and missed, regardless of their current disconnect.
“I want Carly to know that if she’s the one that still wants contact and it’s not happening, I will fight for that til the day I die or until she tells me it’s too hard for me to have contact,” Catelynn passionately stated, illustrating her unwavering commitment to her firstborn. Her heartfelt message underscores her desire to maintain a connection, despite the barriers that currently exist.
“But until that day, I want her to know that I am always here and always willing to do whatever I can,” Catelynn concluded, emphasizing her love and support for Carly, regardless of the distance between them.
