Benji and Joel Madden Celebrate Their Strong Marriages with Cameron Diaz and Nicole Richie
Benji and Joel Madden express immense pride in their marriages to Cameron Diaz and Nicole Richie. Their bond is characterized by a unique blend of admiration and a lighthearted “concern” for their wives, which they openly discuss.
During an engaging appearance on SiriusXM’s Really! With Rob Lowe, the members of Good Charlotte shared insights about their “strong counterparts,” highlighting the dynamic and supportive relationships they have with their spouses, while also humorously addressing their “healthy concern” for them.

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Rob Lowe, aged 61, who has been happily married to Sheryl Berkoff since 1991, pointed out that he and his twin guests, both 46, are fortunate to be married to “strong women,” showcasing a common theme among them.
“I think also, when you consider the powerful women who are simply these forces of nature –,” Benji remarked, prompting Lowe to laugh in agreement, “Dude.” This exchange highlights the admiration and respect they have for their wives’ strength and influence.
“I believe all of our wives are fascinating in the fact that they also do not want to be with a pushover man,” Benji continued. “They still need a strong counterpart, but you must also check your ego at the door.” This statement reflects the necessity of balance in their relationships.
Joel added his voice to the conversation, acknowledging that they all “respect our wives,” while also admitting to a “healthy concern” for them, emphasizing the blend of admiration and caution in their dynamics.
“They’re absolutely our counterparts, and we all have a healthy concern for our wives. In the best way,” Joel explained, with both Benji and Lowe nodding in agreement, showcasing the camaraderie they share regarding their relationships.
Joel revealed that he never believed “someone could keep him grounded” until he met Nicole Richie, emphasizing the transformative impact she has had on his life.
“I was a relationship guy, but then I met Nicole, and she completely runs the show,” he stated. “But we’re partners. There are aspects that I manage, yet there’s a whole part of my life that wouldn’t function effectively without her overseeing it.”
“She gave me a much deeper, richer life because of the aspects of my life that she manages, and I do the same for her,” he added. “I believe we work together seamlessly, but she’s strong. I respect her and feel a bit intimidated by her strength,” he concluded, reflecting the complexity of their relationship.
Benji agreed with his twin brother, adding, “It’s more than just a part of your life. It’s a complete foundation upon which everything else is built.”
“Cameron, when we met, it was like the world just aligned for me [right side up],” he shared. “Everything changed in an instant, and I felt complete.”
Joel emphasized that when they mentioned having a “concern” for their wives, they meant it in a positive context, highlighting the respect and love they hold for them.

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“She’s sharp, strong,” Joel added, to which Lowe remarked that their wives are “formidable,” underlining the strength and intelligence that both Cameron and Nicole possess.
“You don’t want to mess with them,” Joel warned. “I want no part of crossing paths with either of our three wives,” showcasing the protective nature of their relationships.
Throughout the conversation, Joel and Benji continued to praise their wives as “queens” and “forces,” emphasizing their admiration and the pivotal roles their spouses play in their lives.
“Go against my wife? Good luck,” Benji joked lightheartedly. “I don’t even need to get involved in any disputes,” showcasing his confidence in his wife’s strength.
“I don’t want to tangle with Cameron,” Lowe quipped, reinforcing the light-hearted yet serious tone regarding the strength of their spouses.
Benji and Diaz have enjoyed a beautiful marriage since 2015, after a year of dating. They are proud parents to daughter Raddix, 5, and son Cardinal, 1, illustrating their commitment to family life.
Joel and Nicole Richie, aged 43, have been married since 2010 and have welcomed two wonderful children together: daughter Harlow, 17, and son Sparrow, 15, showcasing their shared journey as a family.
Rob Lowe, like Benji and Joel, is also a father of two. The actor and his wife Sheryl Berkoff share sons Matthew, 32, and John, 29, highlighting the common ground they share as fathers and husbands.