Roommates, the incredible wife of LL Cool J, Simone Smith, is candidly sharing the secrets behind their enduring 29-year marriage and the dedication it required to keep their bond strong!

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Simone Smith Unveils Her Journey to Confidence and Strength in Marriage

Recently, Simone appeared on the popular podcast ‘Banking on Cultura’ where she revealed the hard work and determination that went into building a solid foundation for her marriage with LL. She openly admitted that she had to elevate her own self-worth, develop confidence, and embrace the reality of being married to a cultural icon and sex symbol. Despite these challenges, she emphasized the importance of remaining spiritually grounded and prioritizing her own personal growth.

“I had my moments of frustration, feeling upset when someone looked at him in a certain way. But you know, that was in the past,” she reflected.

Simone also highlighted a valuable lesson she learned: you can only change yourself, not others. This realization prompted her to evolve from being an “around the way girl” into a more “mature” partner who values self-respect. This transformation has played a pivotal role in the success of her marriage.

Furthermore, Simone expressed her acceptance of other women appreciating LL Cool J’s attractiveness, but she firmly stated that she will not tolerate any form of disrespect. “The disrespect is something I cannot accept. Now at 54, I’m ready to take off the hoops,” she humorously remarked, emphasizing her boundaries.

However, don’t be misled; she radiates confidence in herself and her marriage, having successfully turned their house into a loving home, and she has no inclination to monitor LL’s every move. “The closer you draw to God, the better you will understand His role in your life and your true purpose,” she wisely noted.

Discover More About the Dynamic Duo: Simone & LL Cool J

LL Cool J, whose real name is James Todd Smith, first crossed paths with his wife Simone back in 1987, leading to their marriage in 1995. As reported by Essence, this influential couple is proud parents to four children. LL Cool J has shared insights with OK! Magazine about keeping the romance alive in their long-lasting marriage, emphasizing that mutual support is essential for their relationship.

“The romantic elements of a marriage should be nurtured throughout the day. Many men mistakenly believe romance can happen at the last moment. It requires continuous effort and support,” LL explained.

Reactions from Social Media on Simone’s Marriage Insights

The Roommates community inundated The Shade Room’s comment section with their thoughts and feelings about Simone’s enlightening marriage tips. Many expressed admiration for her wisdom and shared their own experiences. Here are a few of their thoughtful responses.

Instagram user @jazlyngibbs commented, “She grew. She matured. She learned to pick her battles, while not accepting disrespect. I don’t know her, but I love her!”

Instagram user @theeseductresss added, “I love this, and everything she said is true.

Instagram user @laughingbeauty523 remarked, “She’s stronger than I’ll ever be. God bless them!

Similarly, Instagram user @neekielu expressed, “Women with men in the industry are STRONG! That’s gotta be bittersweet.

Another comment from Instagram user @funmitaiwo_mua stated, “At 54 I’m ready to take off the hoop … the power of a praying wife is real.”

Instagram user @theofficialrazorchic praised, “Such a true queen…love this!

Another insightful comment came from Instagram user @foreign__prince, who said, “Made her house a home! That’s a GOOD WOMAN he’s got! I wish this on all us fellas!”

Instagram user @ebish1 emphasized, “Putting God first in your marriage changes everything.

Lastly, Instagram user @trueandlivin__ concluded with a powerful statement, “These are the women you should be listening to, successful women in successful marriages.

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