Teddi Mellencamp has publicly acknowledged her role and accepted responsibility for her involvement in her divorce from Edwin Arroyave, following the announcement of their separation.

The former star of “The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills” expressed her feelings of sorrow, stating that she has “cried and mourned” the end of her marriage. She also admitted to having “apologized” for her mistakes, particularly after her affair with her married horse trainer came to light. This moment of reflection has allowed her to confront her actions and recognize the impact they have had on her life and family.

“The only person who can change your life is you. We have two choices: pretend to be a victim or stand up and fight for yourself. We all deserve peace and happiness,” Mellencamp shared in an inspirational Instagram video while working out on Sunday. Her words emphasize personal empowerment and the importance of self-reflection.

“I’ve cried and mourned. I’ve taken accountability and apologized for things I’ve done wrong. Now, I’ve given myself permission to grow and thrive,” she continued, highlighting her journey towards healing and self-improvement.

The reality TV star, 43, elaborated on her decision to remain silent in the face of rampant speculation surrounding the breakdown of her marriage. She stated, “I’ve decided not to pander to the media and share my side because in the grand scheme of things, [clickbait] means nothing, and there are naturally three sides to every story.” This indicates her choice to prioritize personal integrity over public opinion.

“How I can stand up and show up for the people that do matter means something. This is what being an adult is about. This is what saying it with my full chest means,” she added, reinforcing her commitment to authenticity and maturity during this challenging time.

Mellencamp further added in her caption, “Comments are on,” after facing backlash from followers for previously disabling comments during her divorce turmoil. This statement illustrates her willingness to engage with her audience more openly, despite the challenges she is facing.

Earlier this month, a source with direct knowledge revealed to Page Six that Mellencamp had an affair with a married friend, which has added to the complexities of her current situation. The mother of three reportedly stepped out on Arroyave, 47, on multiple occasions starting in May.

Page Six identified the individual Mellencamp allegedly had an affair with as her horse trainer, Simon Schroeder, whose then-wife was identified as Karli Postel. This revelation adds another layer of drama to the unfolding narrative surrounding her personal life.

After the details of Mellencamp’s alleged affair became public, sources disclosed to Page Six that Arroyave had also been unfaithful to his wife in 2015. One insider claimed he was involved with a woman named Missy for “at least a year,” while another source suggested the affair lasted closer to “six months.”

Mellencamp revealed her intention to file for divorce from her estranged husband via an Instagram post on Nov. 2, marking a significant shift in her personal life.

“After a lot of care and consideration, I’ve made the difficult decision to file for divorce,” she stated in her announcement. This decision reflects her commitment to pursuing a healthier and more fulfilling life for herself and her children.

“My priority is my children and ensuring that every care is taken with their privacy and wellbeing throughout this new chapter,” she emphasized, underlining her dedication to her family during this transition.

The ex-couple, who got married in 2011, share three children: son Cruz and daughters Slate and Dove, and they are undoubtedly at the forefront of Mellencamp’s mind as she navigates this challenging period.