Elon Musk and the talented artist Grimes engaged in a complex relationship that spanned four years, characterized by periods of both connection and distance, beginning in 2018. In a candid interview with Page Six in September 2021, Elon described their status as “probably semi-separated,” emphasizing the challenges posed by his demanding roles at SpaceX and Tesla, which require him to be predominantly located in Texas or traveling internationally. Meanwhile, Grimes primarily resides in Los Angeles. At that time, he mentioned, “She’s staying with me now and Baby X is in the adjacent room,” indicating that despite their separation, they maintained a close relationship.
Fast forward to March 2022, Grimes shared insights with Vanity Fair, stating that they “live in separate houses” but remain “best friends.” This dynamic highlights their enduring bond even while navigating their individual lives. She has described her affection for Elon, reinforcing that their friendship transcends typical romantic boundaries.
In a tweet filled with affection, she remarked, “Me and E have broken up *again* since the writing of this article haha, but he’s my best friend and the love of my life, and my life and art are forever dedicated to The Mission now.” This statement reflects a commitment to both their personal and professional aspirations, showcasing the unique nature of their relationship.
When the news emerged in September 2023 about the couple’s three children, the “Crystal Ball” singer confirmed the arrival of their newest child, Techno Mechanicus, who joined siblings X Æ A-12 and Exa Dark Sideræl. This revelation not only highlights their family life but also illustrates the intertwining of their personal and public personas.
In November 2024, Grimes opened up about her struggles as a mother, stating that she had “spent a year locked in battle in a state with terrible mothers’ rights,” facing challenges where her Instagram posts and modeling career were used against her in custody matters. She expressed the emotional toll of “fighting and detaching from the love of my life as he becomes unrecognizable to me.” This poignant reflection sheds light on the difficulties faced by many parents navigating complex relationships.
Grimes emphasized the challenges she faced while fighting with only a “fraction” of Elon’s resources, revealing that she was separated from one of her children for five months. She poignantly noted, “This is only what can be said publicly, since most of my experience these last years should remain behind closed doors,” indicating the deeper struggles that remain unspoken.